Question by Apriil: is wanting to date a hot guy such a bad thing?10PTS?
TEN POINTS THIS IS WORTH READING!My friends seem to be in a little controversial debate if you will. There is something wrong with you if you are looking for a hot guy. I have put some of there replies below. I just want you from yahoo. to know I’m looking for a good looking guy, yes but is that so wrong why do so many people care what my dating preferences are? And what could I say to them ? The ones who think it’s so wrong for me to want to date a hot guy. I never said oh, i’m looking for a hot guy that’s a jerk.My mood: Basicly every guy I have fallen in love with was considered ugly(by society and me a lil ooops) and the ones that weren’t didn’t love me. What gives? I know there is a hot and nice guy out there?? Right?? hahaha. I’m greatfull to just be happy and fu*k the dating sites Shenagins it is LMAO!! I’m so funny sometimes!

J K inpt from friend.
J K
I’m not sure the bars are the best place to find a hot, nice, and smart guy but if he’s not there… At least you can get a drink. lol
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GH Input from friend.
GH
Once you get past looks 100% you will find the right guy and that guy regardless will be hot to you. Isnt being loved back by someone you love all that really matters?
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back to me April now……..
there you go…I think I can manage that ! Well I’m not going to church to meet a guy and know this I’m not looking =for marriage I just want someone fun to be around and have a time , and not waking up alone is nice too!
Note to anyone :Oh yes love does matter the most!! but anyone on here is a liar if they say looks don’t matter can u not see my point of view? I have dated the less fortunate and was always catching my eye looking at the hot guys oh btw HOT to me means..don’t just mean drop dead sexy like some may think ” they comb their hair, keep them selves neat… See More, use soap and shampoo speak ENGLISH” I’m not worried about getting a rich guy if your rich and still single u have issues.HOT “Someone who has clean white teeth(know how hard that is to find?) Clothes with no holes so even a “ugly” guy I will look at and have dated don’t mean I don’t have a few standards. That some are seeing me as being vain. Then you date the smelly non English speaking guy who steals bar soap if your lucky” To me HOT is not just looks I understand this and that’s how I see it too. I want it all …it’s my life and I’m happy either way.Really, if u know me then you know me …I’m good.

L B
L B
Very good read . …as you say hot to you might mean something different than a nother woman just as sexy to a guy is different things to different guys .

Oh and I love to see the advice ” someone with a life partner responds…..then the way I have no one in my life responds…..then lol the one I haven’t dated in years but know what I’m talking about .
So shoot me cuz I want to date a guy that’s hot..seeeshhhh All women do this …how do you thin sexy people become famous. I can’t get Bradd Pitt … See More but I can avoid the beer belly pimples on the back,butt and legs lol.

un tidy un neat no personality and no fun. I wont hang out with a hot guy that can’t laugh …..being hot could be having a damn good personality.I just know someone is going to say something dumb …..my version of hot seems less judgmental…. then the ones who are trying to “accommodate my mood”
ANSWER I’M LOOKING FOR IS WHY DO PEOPLE ..?WHY WOULD ANYONE CARE IF YOU ARE TRYING TO DATE A HOT GUY…EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT THE TYPE OF PERSON THAT YOUR FRIENDS CALL VAIN.
IN FACT THEY JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND WHY I WANT TO DATE A GUY THAT’S HOT LOL LOL MAN! COULD IT BE THAT THEY ARE JEALOUS ?
I told my friends I wanted to find a hot guy to date. I did not say I would only date a hot guy. Nor did I say if A avg guy were to talk to me that I would blow them off all I was saying is I’d like to find an attractive guy to date ….duh smart funny ect…..just because I say that’s what I want also don’t mean that’s what I’m going to get. Hot to me also means brush your teeth take a shower wear clean clothes more to it then people seem to “get” it’s a big deal because I want to know what to say to my one minded friends that say it’s vain or your putting your self above others by looking for a guy you find attractive. Should I be rude or whats the best answer I can tell them. When they get upset(mostly the ugly friends)

Best answer:

Answer by Guitarlover
Hot guys? Don’t classify people like that. They may like it but then do the ‘other’ guys like it? Pretty sure they don’t like it, I think they hate it. Date who you have feelings for, not for physical looks. Looks wear off! Love doesn’t.

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