It’s pretty simple actually ladies:) Besides the obvious fashion advice that you shouldn’t dress slutty (legs AND cleavage? Too much. I saw a girl the other day dancing in a dress that was seriously a tube top. The bottom of her dress barely covered her bum. Not a fan ladies. Not a fan.) …The other way to act like a lady is to withhold sex. Don’t give it up! You know I’m a fan of waiting until you get married to have sex. But at the VERY least, putting religious reasonings aside, you shouldn’t have sex until you’re at least monogamous. Until then, let this song’s message be your mantra:)

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One more thing ladies. When you hold off on sex, you give the guy a better chance to start thinking with his head and his heart and not with his penis. A man can fall in “lust” with a woman when he has sex on his brain, but he can only fall in love with his heart and mind. The penis is a distracting, powerful organ. It may cause him to “feel” like he’s falling for you, thus causing him to say sweet nothings, but as fast as those feelings come, they can also disappear. Thomas Paine’s quote I think applies to this subject:

“The harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly. It is dearness only that gives everything its value” -Thomas Paine

I will never forget this poem I read as a teenager. This doesn’t always happen, but it happens too often:

Probably have blogged that poem before, but it’s just so powerful. Women, you will ALWAYS be the one that has to set the boundaries. You will be the one to “let him.” or let him wait.

What if he’s tired of waiting and leaves cuz you won’t give it up?

Then he just wasn’t that into you. You’ll have a much faster recovery time if he leaves at this point and hasn’t been in your pants. If he gets into your pants at this point because you give in, it doesn’t change the fact that he ’s not that into you. The only thing that changes is now you’ve just had sex with a guy that’s just not that into you. Ehhh. Lose-lose.

Women hold the power card when it comes to sex. Think about it. If an unattractive, charmless guy came into a bar, he really is at the mercy of some woman giving in. Take some unattractive, charmless woman who wants to give it up? She can walk into a bar and I PROMISE there WILL BE some dude who will jump at the opportunity. That’s why men say, “I got lucky.” “I got laid.” Because women have the power to make them lucky.

The power of sex isn’t in your freedom to give it away, it’s in your freedom to reserve it and protect it. Harness that power by withholding it until the right time:)

Dating Advice From A Girl