I think many guys have wondered and had similar misconceptions about how a woman will respond if he is forward. Here is a reader’s question:
Correct me if I’m wrong. I always thought that being straight forward and obvious would make me look like a sex-crazed pig, which is the opposite of what I want to portray, so I’ve tried to think of a way to be subtle. Then, by being subtle, my romantic interests never actually knew I was interested in them and thought of me as a friend. I guess it was all in my head and that I just need to go for it. Do I need to build rapport with her or is it enough to walk up to an attractive woman and just say, “Hi. I’m Philip. I saw you standing/sitting here and you look so beautiful that I want to take you out to dinner.”
My response:
Be straightforward, be obvious. Yes and yes. I’ve never had the opinion “you’re a sex crazed pig” to ANY man who’s been straight forward and obvious. All I’ve thought was “Wow, he’s confident. wow, he’s brave. He finds me desirable!”
You only look like a sex crazed pig if you start with the sexual inuendo or blatantly start joking and flirting and talking about sex.
Women WANT to be desired, so the straightforward, obvious route is the way to go.
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