The impression that Japanese women are subdued makes Western guys dream of dating Japanese women. Most Western guys see Japanese women as submissive, soft-spoken and very timid. Japanese women prioritize their men; and would love to serve and please them too. Now let’s talk about reality. The “soft spoken” part is true-when you’re in public with her. Japanese women as the submissive type is a little bit of exaggeration. It’s not in a Japanese woman’s nature to confront or debate with you in public-they would find this deeply embarrassing-but behind closed doors, you will certainly know it if your Japanese girlfriend is upset about something.Although Japanese women can be stubborn and temperamental at times; they also make wonderful life partners too.. Now let me give you some insights into their culture and some tips to help you navigate the tricky parts.
Guys are always the decision maker.
Your Japanese girlfriend would expect that you make the decision most of the time. This is in contrast to the practice of Western guys wherein they often ask women about their opinion on almost everything. You have to keep this in mind especially if you are dating Japanese women. Just spill out your plans and preparations to her. Men are expected to behave in this manner by Japanese women. However, after a couple of dates, do not expect her to silently follow your suggestions all the time. Remember that she has her own opinions too.
When it’s time to get intimate, it’s also up to you to take the lead.She won’t make the first move. Once she thinks that you are good enough for her, be ready for a little surprise because she might just be too eager to have intimate moments with you.
Japanese women are not big on P.D.A.s (Public Displays of Affection).She feels a little uncomfortable when you kiss, hug or hold her hands when there are other people around you. Until such time she is comfortable with you, you need to spare her from being in the awkward situations and just all do the physical stuff when you are alone with her.
It is very important that you must be always on time.Japan must be the most organized, efficient society in the world. If you have a date with beautiful Asian women like Japanese, you must always be on time. When I say on time, it means on the dot. Japanese women are inclined to assume that you do not give her much importance. There is no such thing as “fashionably late” in their culture.
Practice proper hygiene and you must be well-groomed if you are really serious about dating Japanese women.
Japanese women believe that being clean is a positive trait that they should be proud of. One thing I love about Japanese women is that they always look immaculate when they go out in public: their hair, makeup, nails and outfits are always neatly put together, even if they’re just going out to run errands.
Always convey to Japanese women that you are an organized guy who has his act together.There is really no need to be bothered by what other people say, you aim is to know your purpose in life. They don’t understand the concept of “slackers” or “finding your purpose in life.” You can start your conversation by talking about your school or talk to her about your ambitions too. If you want to impress your Japanese woman date, you need to have a game plan..
Your home is actually the reflection of your personality, so it must be clean to show that you are an orderly person.. Never invite a Japanese woman into your home (or any female, for that matter) unless it’s extremely clean, most especially your bathrooms. Women will almost always ask to use your bathroom to “freshen up.” Few things will gross them out more than a dirty bathroom.
By doing these things, you have more chance of creating a good impression on her. Your cultural differences will never be an issue between the two of you if you are willing to learn and adjust in her culture too. You can simply follow these things if you want to be successful in dating Japanese women.
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