Here’s a reader’s question:

I happened to bump into her the next day in the cafe, had a brief conversation, but was really not sure what to say. You really got to help me here… as in, what do I say to her if I happen to meet her in the office cafeteria or something? As in a brief setting? If you get what I mean, because I find it pretty awkward just saying ‘sup? how you doing and stuff’ It adds to nothing.

My suggestions:

If you run into her briefly, compliment her! Tell her,

“You look very beautiful today.”

or

“The color of your dress really brings out your eyes.”

or

“You know it makes my day to see you smile. How’s your day going?”

When you see her in the cafeteria, ask her,

“What’s for lunch?”

or tell her,

“Let me treat you today.”

You can also chat her up as you’re both looking at items on the counter and ask her opinion,

“What looks good to you?”

If she says, “Oh the lasagna.” You can say,

“Oh, you like Italian?”….

Pay attention to her facial expression when you see her.

“You look like you have a lot on your mind today. How’s everything going?”

Or

“You look like you won a million bucks. What’s going on?”

Or be silly and throw in some innuendo, some double entendres that are playful and show confidence. You gotta be bold to pull this off, something like,

“You know, _______, we really should stop meeting like this.” (smile)

It has to be kinda provocative but playful.

Do you dare? LOL

Good luck guys!

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